Here is an exampel from reality.
One elder was very carefull widh small things as who can go widh the mikrophone, and also who can counts as pulisher, very high demands, like perfekt youngsters or we dont count your sevice, and you can not be publisher.
He also hunt some brothers widh alkoholic problems, or not problems, only littel more liberal wuie about was what tolerated, he stated a rule, if you are drunk more then 2 times we must dfd ýou, óne men was alos dfd fore he admitt that he perhaps have been drunk more than 2 times.
He also once decide that one brother widh this problem must have a public reprimand from the podium, public reprof, like brother Smith have problems widh Alcohol.
Problem was they never told him before this anonunsment, so it was a bigg schock fore him to here this.
It later show upp that this high and migh´ty elder himsef have done the most bigg siin he have unother mans wife as lover fore several years.
He was ofcourse dfd you say,??? weel not exaktly, he have only restriktions, but not fuly, he have promise to answer on bookstudie.
Now sudenly it was no talking about doing things more than 3 times and you will be dfd, no it was forgiven even if things happend 30 times, and as I understand the bibel the most heavy siin is adultery , and use you frends bedd to do this widh hes wife.
But I must have wrong ther, things are not anymore like what I have learned, ofcourse this send the cong down in depression, but the solution from headquorter is that if it dont work close the cong, GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRrrrrrr.